Everyone knows the icing does not go underneath the cupcake. It does not go on the side. You can't put icing on a crumbling cupcake, then it gets all the crumbs mixed up in it and makes a mess. You can try and fill in a hollow cupcake with the icing, but there is never enough to fill the inside and cover the top, and that's no good. If you're going to make a cupcake, make it the right way: one whole cake, with just the right amount of icing on top.
And that's basically how a relationship works.
Be a whole cake. Everything else is delicious, but it is just icing.
